a bit of a new look

listen. i know you guys aren't idiots and have probably noticed a few changes going on around here. yeah, so i thought i should try getting a little more creative and actually create my own background and a new header. so as cayden grows, those photos to the side will be added to (one this next week!). we'll stop at a year - no worries. let me know your thoughts on how you think it's looking. it's feeling warmer and more friendly to me already... and well, it lets you know who this blog is centered around pretty quickly, too.